How has your life changed? Now that the baby is in the family how has eveything changed? How has you and your spouse reacted to all the changes? Have your relationship got better or fall down a bit?
To all you to be come or newly parents, there is so much ahead of you and to look forward to now that your little baby boy or girl has arrived. Your relationship is most likley going to have some up and downs due to the baby being here. Just don't blame your spouse or the baby. Take a step back and look at the whole picture you and your spouse are going to be both tired and cranky. When you put to people at that state of mind arguments arrive. so both of you need to have a uderstanding of eachother. A bad thing to do is critisize and compare. (i.e. i do more work than you, im at work all day, i took care of the baby all day.) honestly,You both worked very hard and should just sit back and appreciate one another. If you do compare and critsize you won't accompilish anything besides hurt feelings. You should also never fight in front of your baby. Your baby can sence the tession and it can make him/her become cranky and will put more stress on eachother.
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